So often we are told, and shown, that in order to be successful in your business you have to be more like a man than a woman. Gtfo of here! Your strengths are in both your feminine and masculine energies. In this video I will explain them both and how they are both to be […]
(Transcript of video) I’ve always been a “why” girl. As a little girl I remember riding shotgun in my dads old, clunker truck on a random country road, asking the question “why” about almost everything I saw, heard, smelled, all of it. He answered every time. I honestly don’t think, to this day, he has […]
I know you are struggling. I know you are hurting. I know you are feeling pretty worthless and a lot of the time you are just trying to drag your ass through the next 5 minutes. No wonder you think about giving up. No wonder you question if this is all really worth it. No […]
https://cayciellis.com/connection-mp4/This question doesn’t really surprise me anymore. People ask this quite often in the business world. They don’t really understand why I put so much weight on leaders connecting with their team, and their team connecting with their customers. So many think it’s about sales techniques and good marketing, or presenting an image of kindness […]
Do you ever feel like you have to break back into your life? Maybe you built glass walls, slowly over time. You still wanted to see your heart, your foundation, but you wanted to be separated from it. Now, you’re on the outside. You have to shatter this glass to get back to your foundation. […]
Judgement and shame are high-priorities in my brain. I bring them both onto myself frequently. Not only do I believe that I’m usually part of the problem, but I also could really “do better” to fix them. This isn’t healthy of course, but it is consistent. And it causes constant pain that shows out in […]
Personal Affirmation: “I can tap into a wellspring of inner happiness anytime I wish.” For my Daily Habit Tracker for my business, here is what I do each day. Sometimes I miss one or two, and if I take a day off I may not do much of them. My personal one is different. Listen […]
I took a quiz yesterday from a widely known Freelancer website. One area I was scored on was regarding my “Interpersonal Office Skills”. Now, since I study and teach about Leadership, Service, Engagement, Empathy, and building the relationship between Companies and Employees…..you would figure I’d get an awesome score right? Nope! I got a 62%! […]
Since I work at home, everyday is “bring your pet to work day”. I’m cool with it, because having an injection of furry love throughout the day is exactly what I need to keep my mindset where it needs to be. For me, the best mindset is in a place of compassion, gratitude, love, and […]
As an advocate of Emotional Leadership, it pains me to see influential leaders NOT talking about motivation and how to do it in a healthy way. The only talk is by “junk food”. Incentives, money, bribes, cars, trips……crap. OR it’s shame “Well, Karen signed up 4 people, so why can’t you?” And its OK to […]